Biography Dmitry Pavlyuchenko

Each of us in our life is trying to find the answer to this question. Favorite people, favorite work, beloved activity in life - this and much more makes us happy. Many find, and gain their meaning of life, someone is in an endless search for themselves and the reasons to be happy. Sometimes you need to leave everything and leave a thousand kilometers from the house to find yourself and your happiness.

You just need to be in the right place at the right time. Our new story about love and overcoming. About how not to get afraid of difficulties and find your happiness. Tatyana disabled childhood of the first group moves on a wheelchair, but even this fact did not stop her from radically changing her life to find out the story in more detail, we talked with the guys personally: - Tell me a little about yourself.

For 3 and a half years I have been living in the city of Pskov. In the year, Dima took me and took me thousands of kilometers from the house. In Kirovsk, my wonderful parents remained, unfortunately, due to such a huge distance, there is no way to travel to them often, because on the way you need to spend more than 30 hours. And in my situation, I generally need to sit on the bus free of charge.

It’s good that the video was invented, there is an opportunity to be a little closer. We have Dima from the island, but has been living in Pskov for many years. It works at the Russian Post. Every year my body weakens, as muscles are destroyed. I had a native sister, she had the same disease, but she did not go more severe from the age of 7, unfortunately the sister was gone 25 years ago, it was a very difficult shock for me, I was only 9 years old.

But apparently God had other plans for me, I was more fortunate. At the age of 13, the doctors had attempts to put me in a wheelchair, as my condition worsened and began to refuse my legs, but I did not give up, I then said: “I won’t sit down in a wheelchair,” and then it turned out to be a little diverge. Up to a year, I moved less - less, I even learned at the university in full -time form.

But then in the Donbass it became “noisy”, and because of constant stress, my condition began to worsen more and more every year, and since the year I finally sat in a wheelchair. Up to a year, there were not even any drugs that would fully support the body in this disease. And lo and lo, this drug was developed, of course, it does not completely cure, but inhibits the process of destruction of muscles.

The drug is foreign and it costs unrealistic money, it is simply impossible to allow it to buy it on its own. For a long time this drug was not registered in Russia, but finally it happened. Children under 18 years of age are purchased at the expense of state. When I moved to Pskov, I had a dream to get such a drug, I believed that the day would come when they would begin to give it to adults.

And you know, we can say that dreams really come true! In December, we had a real miracle, December 19, on the day of St. Nicholas the Wonderworker, we finally received this long -awaited drug. And for three months now I have been going through the therapy for him, and I believe that he really will help me. At that time, I still lived with my parents. As many now tell us who knows our story that music and Dima were connected by music.

They really say that you need to be at the right time, in the right place. It was such a place for us that the musical broadcasts in the online cafe “Chamomile” by Roman Efimov, at that time, was the first presenter to whom it was possible without leaving the house and sitting on the couch, to order a favorite song, to listen to a talented cover version of his beloved work.

For a person who doesn’t get anywhere, this is very convenient. Where Dima actually ordered me a song, as a gift for Tatyana's day, I answered, and so we started talking. Even then, Dima and I really inspired me, and we began to dream of how the same ethers would have been fired together. But at first it was very scary for me to admit that I was in a stroller, I thought why he needed me at all.

I got courage, admitted. Dima was not of cowardly and we continued our communication, which lasted three and a half years, all this time we dreamed that we were together, made plans. Dima was looking for an opportunity to take me by car, as it was hard to do on the bus. But nothing happened. Since I was from everything that was happening in my life in despair, I set up the ultimatum Dima in a bit: either we stop talking, or you come and take me by bus, I am ready to withstand this path.

I understood what I was doing. I trusted Dima completely. And in general, I am still that frog traveler, since I graduated from school, I actually did not live at home. I went to study in Lugansk, and so it happened, drove somewhere. Here, of course, you can’t go far in a wheelchair on a wheelchair, in our city there are no conditions at all to move without outside help, but I had Dima, who was my support and my legs.

We had a whole special operation to deliver me to Pskov.Thanks to the Internet and again, we have many new good friends who helped us a lot. To get to Lugansk, Dima had to go from Pskov to Moscow and make a transplant there. In Moscow, he was met by our good, also singing friends Tatyana and Edgar Knyazeva. Dima spent the night with them, they spent a musical charity broadcast on the Internet, where they helped collect some money on the road.

And Dima went on to meet me. I knew where I was going, and what was waiting for me there. I was ready for such a step, the only thing that was a little scared as we can handle the road. But everything went well. When Dima entered our house for the first time, I did not know what to say and what to do with this young man laughs. Probably nothing, we had been waiting for our meeting for so long that probably when we met the feeling that we did not part.

No, there was no desire to return one back. Moreover, we carefully thought out the return trip, we went by bus to St. Petersburg, where we were met by our good friend Natalya Rumyantseva, whom we met there and with Tanya. She helped us with her suitcases, put on a swallow to Pskov.

After I was in a wheelchair, it seemed to me that life was over. Of course, I am an optimist in life, but there was simply some hopelessness. Because I did not even have the opportunity to leave the house, my parents' house is not intended for a person with disabilities, you just won’t even get to the hospital, there could even be no speech to get medicine. In Pskov I have more opportunities, more comfortable living conditions.

An affordable environment is well developed here, you can get to almost any building, there are all conditions in hospitals. The only difficulty is to go down the steps when you leave the house, we live on the third floor, well, Dima in three years that we live together, have already learned to overcome this barrier, takes me in the stroller on the steps. The only thing you often do not travel so is hard.

Thanks to my parents, I never felt not full. We are now conducting broadcasts, and when people find out that I am in a stroller, they are very surprised. Some people think that I am even pretending. I try to be always positive, and in my life there were moments when they told me thanks for my positive, and the desire to live. That my optimism charges people with positive energy.

It costs a lot, you really want to live after such words. But at the age of 16, I finally gathered my heart and went to our city recreation center, where I sang 6 years. Again, because of health problems, everything had to be abandoned. Dima began to sing from a year, it all started with the fact that he began to conduct birthdays, a wedding. But at one event he ripped off his voice, and for a long time could not restore.

And since the year he began to sing again, and conduct musical broadcasts on the Internet. When Dima took me, we began to conduct broadcasts together. It was thanks to our listeners that they learned about us and invited to the program “Songs with all my heart” with Andrei Malakhov. After the program, they also learned about us in Pskov. Last year, in April, we took the contest of the amber note, won first place and won a certificate for a trip to Kaliningrad for the final of the competition.

And in September we went to Smolensk and participated in the competition "We can wemmer together", took second place. And I have my hobby, in addition to the fact that I like to sing songs, I still love them and listen, in my collection a huge number of rare equipment, many people get in a disassembled state, I will restore everything myself. I even have a pavement of the year and records for it.

Large phonothek records, cassettes and sd discs. I do not like modern sound, the old technique is more atmospheric. Heat the soul. When you sit down and begin to think about how poor I am, how hard it is for me. You begin to demand from other people to be spared. This is the worst of all, especially for people with disabilities, when only a sense of pity is experienced for you.

And I also want to wish to never lose life optimism. And love each other no matter what and be kinder to each other. Appreciate life and always believe in yourself and your strength. And everything will definitely be fine.